“Her blackness is fine, the blackness of her skin; the blackness of her mind. Her beauty cannot be measured with standards of a colonized mind.” — Me’shell Ndegéocello... I'll take offence to the classification of an average female because that I am not. Nor do I need anyone's validation of my self-worth. I know who I am & I know I am capable of doing whatever I set my mind to do. "Live without pretending, Love without depending, Listen without defending, Speak without offending." - Drake